Help! Need Advice please Part 2

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My H had his first meeting with the military Chaplain today in which he had planned to learn about more counseling and marriage related services, I hadn't asked for this info, he told it to me of his own accord.

Seems like a positive sign your H scheduling appointments with a Chaplain and researching marriage counseling services.

It should have ended awhile ago and I have not gotten ahold of my H to see how it went, he went to work right after, or was suppose to at least. Which has been very difficult for me so far but I am trying to stay strong.

Play coy and resist the urge to hound him about it. Think of it as an experiment / test to see if he'll reach out to tell you about it (and perhaps even be excited about it).

Also My H asked me if I'd be interested in this sort of Marriage related seminar through the Military, its called Strong Bonds, its a sort of seminar with couples on tips on communication and things such as this apparently, he has to sign up soon he said if so, I asked him how long for the deadline, he says he has to check but he believes he has about a month. I told him I am not ready to make that decision right now but I will try to let him know before the deadline if possible.

Just my $0.02, but if it's really H who's asking you to attend a marriage bonding program I'd take him up on it - you just don't want to be the one dragging him to attend something he doesn't want.

LH19 I have been GALing my butt off as suggested, had a great time going to a fair and concert with a good friend and another day with my son I've been focusing on work and my son, and friends, much more then I thought id be able to.

Awesome! Keep it up!

Good update Artemis1. Hope things continue in a positive direction for you...