Wolfman moving forward

[Wolfman]

Wolfman, when is your first session with D? How frequent will they be? You must be excited.

Therapy takes time. I like when they give you clear homework. Hopefully within a few sessions, you’ll have impressed the therapist enough, a weekly phone call will be on the table..

Had my first therapy with d was this past Friday. It was a little hard. My d just bashed me how horrible I was and things I did. Most of which were lies. Lies that I am able to prove. I didn’t prove it with my d there, I showed the therapist afterward. Example, my complained that I called her a rat, because she was telling my ex everything that was going on in my house. Saying how dare I call her that. I acknowledged it and said maybe that was not appropriate and I apologized to her for that. But I said you are complaining that I said that and that it was hurtful, what about what your mom says to you? She said like what? And I quote, How many times did your mom say you smelled like $h*t and looked like that? She said she didn’t? I said are you sure, please don’t lie to the therapist and then she didn’t say anything. Afterward I have recordings of her mom yelling at her saying those things. Another lie was that I shoved my gr down her throat. I said I gradually tried to introduce her to you. And then she said I only met her a few times. I said why? Because you didn’t want me to bring her around more, so I was honoring ur wishes. So if I bring her around it’s too much, if I don’t you didn’t get to know her. So I lose. I said what about your mom? Was it ok she brought her bf around? She said she had no problem with him coming around. Another lie. I said to my daughter are you sure, again it’s just about being honest with this therapist. She said she didn’t have a problem. Again, after I showed the therapist texts between her and her mom and she said he is always around and how she is shoving him down her throat. I want the therapist to see how she lies and makes up things, to hopeful show the parental alienation. There is no s more but not going to get into it now. I hope this therapist can really help.

As far as the court case Don, my lawyers said if they call my d into testify all she has to say is I gave her anxiety or she felt harassed and all the evidence in the world won’t help me. My first and most important step was to get rid of that order of protection. I have to take it one step at a time. Look am I truly happy with everything, no, but I have to take the good with the bad.