So Pack quickly you have to suck it up and put your kids first in those conversations. Your son thinks you hung up on him not your STBXW.

If you don’t want to give up time with the kids then don’t. No grand statements just say no.

You are still in love with the fantasy. It doesn’t exist.

Lastly, this isn’t who your STBXW has become. This is who she has always been. You just couldn’t see it.