She had said to me she wasn’t ready for marriage. To which I said “good because I had no intention of proposing unless/until we had talked it through when if the time came. She’s easily a 60+ hours a week worker but see living together and me having D makes it feel like she’s married. She gets guilty feeling she should be home but at the same time her work demands are there. Her moving into her own place might help relieve that pressure she feels. As I say I’m good with BF and GF and seeing each other here and there. Dang sure I’m no rush for marriage again.
Again maybe there’s someone else, I told her when we first started dating that was my hard boundary, do that and I’m done and won’t look back. Even when she asked for space she even asked if that would mean I’d never speak to her again. I said this is not the same as that. She repeatedly said she loves me and she has contacted me by text twice since then. Bottom line I’m doing exactly totally detached, having fun with D and ready to get back into the dating game if she decides to end us. She knows I’m a great man and says she loves me. Ultimately her decision. As I say she’s been amazing to this point.
