Yes we had been living together and after our discussion she moved out with all of her things.
As I say I’m not sure about there not being another man. And if there is/was I’d be done and she knows this. How will I know..good question. Im simply saying there are no other signs and her hectic career and desire to work even more than she does now have always been an issue. Honestly while I’m respecting and leaving her be I’m posturing my expectation on there being some one else.
One week beach vacation was recent and we were fantastic throughout. No fighting, distance, bitxhiness, sex was amazing. Anything is possible.
No complaints about me. Going back to her work schedule, said it was unfair to me that she couldn’t give me more time. Though I have enjoyed the free time to spend with friends, pursue my guitar playing and lessons. Again could be cover for another man. Who knows.
I have no rush to be anything but BF GF and you may be right but if she did honestly just need some time to address some things, after how wonderful she’s been to date I don’t see the harm. If she wants us to continue it will be made clear that this space is a one time only event. I won’t do another. Also if this space goes on with no updates one way or the other, I will also be done. I’m totally at peace with saying goodbye to her and letting her go but given our history together I’m ok with given her the space and seeing what happens.
