Help! Need Advice please Part 2

[Ready2Change]

Hi Art,

Most of us here are over 40. You and your H are significantly younger than us. My kids are only a few years younger than your H.

Please correct me if needed:
Art was 20 when she had a baby son who is now 7. At age 23, Art met H who was a 19 year old virgin. Art is now 27 and H is 24 raising the 7yo. They currently live in H's fathers house(who is not currently living there), sleeping in different rooms. H's mother does not work and lives in a different house. Art's Mother lives close, but the house is full so Art can't go move there. Art bought and read DR 4 weeks ago. She has been posting here for 2 weeks. Art has a meeting setup with a lawyer to understand the legal side of things.


You are going to progress down multiple parallel paths. Preparing to move out and get divorced. (Preparing for the worst). DBing your behind off (Hoping for the best).

Read Sandi's rules daily. Keep adding new skills to your behavior. Predict the next interaction and be ready to respond in an effective way.


HUGS