Sorry missed yours in my last Reply.... And that is what I am trying to start working on and digging through this site for some ideas on requirements I guess youd call it. Obviously this minute I don't believe we are ready for piecing, from what I have read in Piecing its not for NC, MLC, etc. so I want to be more sure of his intentions before I persay go there.
I want to make good boundaries as well, to not let him have me fully back, I don't want to take it to the point of controlling, but I will obviously have some issues with trust for awhile.
As I did say in my reply before this one, He reached out to his Chaplain with the Military to set a meeting and work more with counseling... My H has always been completely against counseling, he just isn't one to want to open up to a stranger, so this was a big step on his part.
