Good morning everyone,

Just wondering how I should deal with the following. And sorry for my straightforward question...

Haven't had this in years so maybe you can give me some advice.

I do a job for which I work in several companies (up to 100/year), this to give them advice in certain areas, to help them in the process and then to follow up if necessary. Very nice because a lot of variety.

Of course you meet a lot of different people that way. There are also companies that I visit more regularly, so you get to know these people better and better.

For example, I have been going to a certain company on a regular basis for a number of years now and there is a very nice man who works there, with whom I occasionally have conversations with.

This weekend, however, he suddenly started to show interest in a different way. 10 years younger then me, single since a couple of months after a long relationship, no kids.

Help!! Attention from another man. shocked crazy

We sent some messages back and forth and he would like to meet, and to be honest I do too.

Made it already clear to him that I'm not interested in a relationship , still have too much love for my H, and prefer to be single at the moment, but I do enjoy the attention, and there is some physical attraction. In all honesty, it seems to me that it could lead to something temporary but more in a physical way.

I assume this happened to some of you too? Are you blocking this or can you go along with it?

I'm really a layman in this, no experience at all…and I absolutely don't know where this can lead too, but I like to be a little prepared, so all advice is welcome…

Maybe you'll even find it strange that I'm open to this already??

Last edited by Eagle3; 07/20/21 09:35 AM.