Great news about the drug KML!! Our attachment styles tend to come from very early experiences with our parents. If you are a secure attachment style, chances are you were raised by very responsive, stable parents (emphasis on the mother) who would respond to you in a predictable timely manner. I am also a secure attachment person. Sometimes I think if I was a bit more of an insecure attachment person, I might have been more sensitive to my XH’s deceptions. But when I trust someone, I TRUST someone. Still…better to be securely attached than not, I think. Hope CMM gets more time. (((HUGS)))