This is usually a sign you aren't keeping busy. GAL is crucial, otherwise you'll sit and stew in the juices of your sitch.
No, I'm keeping busy looking for a place to live. It's all I seem to do and then go out for an hour to get some fresh air! I haven't got time for anything else.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.