Try to read this response completely objectively. As if someone else wrote it. Would you say the poster was focusing on themselves? Or on their WAS?
Yeah, point(s) taken. Hard though, as that's where my brain wants to go.
Originally Posted by CWarrior
Thanks for that and your comments makes sense, of course.
I think I've got it now - finally - sort me.. it's so difficult also as the past 19 years I've been putting her first. I shall work on redirecting my thoughts.
Thanks for the kick op the jacksie!
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.