I read in a book once that a dumpee will try to diagnose the dumper with MLC, NDP etc so they can convince themselves that they can still love them because they are not in their right mind. If they were they would certainly never do this to the dumpee.
I have gotten flack in the past for calling WS $hitty people and have since then rethought it and changed it to selfish people.
Interesting concept. I don't feel that this is what I'm doing. I don't need to convince myself that I can still love her and I'm not sure what gain I would get from doing that. I also agree that based on my wife she seems to be an extremely selfish person. It really is like she is under some form of wicked spell.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
