I see a LBS in pain and anger demonizing their WAS and not taking responsibility for their own choices. I get finding empathy for your WAS is a bit much at the moment. Where I would try to curb your behavior is where you spend time mind-reading her motivations. I would also not invest so much energy into negative things that could happen. Do some basic preparation, but focus most on what’s actually happening. Good luck!
In pain, yes - anger? Not so much. I am taking responsibility for my own choices, of course. I am just trying to understand the likelihood, not to portion blame. Please don't get me wrong here. I like to try to understand as much as I can about stuff, especially so that I know how to recognise these types of things again. It's so hard trying to come across properly in text. I must be coming across really bad.....
Originally Posted by CWarrior
Internet. She hasn't declined to supply the information, just hasn't supplied it.
I can't understand why she hasn't as I could then change the bank details to come from my account, therefore I won't lose internet. It would make her life easier as she then hasn't got to deal with it. It is my belief that she is purposely going to cancel stuff with no notice - which is a very nasty thing to do and controlling.
I went to have a chat with my neighbour and they have gone away on holiday it would seem - which is a pain. I don't know when the next billing cycle is as they can't give me any information as I can't get past the security questions on the account. Apparently I am named on the account, but they won't give me access. I shall have to wait to see what the courts decide now. I can always go to the pub, but I do a lot of my stuff in the evenings and I need a big screen. I shall do what I can for now.
Just finished shortlisting properties. Not too sure about the areas as I've never been, but doesn't look too bad on the internet. There's 5 all around the same area (after after just over a 4 hour drive). I shall call the agents tomorrow see how the ground lies. All the procedures here in the UK seemed to have changed and now you need to apply after you've seen the property, rather than just say "Yeah, I'll take it".
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
