KitCat, I've been wondering about you. I <3 your update. It's one of the strongest I've seen so far. (:
Originally Posted by KitCat
He doesn't email me back.... rather he sticks to texting me.
That's okay, right? You control how you send messages. He controls how he sends messages. I see it as a step towards detachment that you're shifting to e-mail. Consider blocking his texts if they trigger you.
Originally Posted by KitCat
He is a nice guy and he is really into me... like really into me... and I've had to say to him last night that we don't really know each other.... we live in 2 different states.... and I'm still not D. But, I said I'm happy to meet up and spend time with him but he needs to temper his expectations.
You said he's really into "you", but doesn't know much more about "you" than how you look. If you're both seeking a fling, this could be a match. If either of you are seeking something deeper I'd be wary of someone with no standards. To be clear, you may be quite a catch for a relationship--and we know you have many strong character traits--but if he doesn't know you, he doesn't know that. Why so excited? (:
Originally Posted by KitCat
he needs to temper his expectations.
You can be clear about your expectations. You can't control his expectations.
Originally Posted by KitCat
My goal was to make it kayaking this summer... hasn't happened yet. Met a woman who did go quite a bit and even had a second kayak and she invited me.... but never followed up. I found a place that does an underwater kayak thing but it will require some travel... so fingers crossed.
Good luck! I'm lucky I met a nice woman willing to lend me her paddleboards What's an underwater kayak?!
Originally Posted by KitCat
Off to practice my ukulele...
You're the third woman this week taking ukelele classes! What's driving this craze?!
Originally Posted by May
Any thoughts on considering therapy again? Could be a great outlet for you.
