Sounds to me like he’s just using that as an opportunity to put the blame on you and absolve himself of any guilt and justify his bad behavior. I’d bet he’s also mad that it’s going to be difficult to continue to lie when you have proof of those lies. It also sounds like he’s going to use this opportunity to manipulate you into deleting your evidence.
My advice is to do literally nothing. Don’t bring it up. Don’t bother defending yourself. It’ll be an exercise in futility. If he crosses a boundary you’ve set than take action. If he starts or continues to belittle you or cause an argument and continue to blame you walk away.
Just my 2 cents
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
