It’s very common for WAS to start planning their exits well in advance, rarely is it a spur of the moment decision. But the fact that your W was secretly funneling money, and knowingly leaving you with nothing, truly speaks to her character.
The others are right, face your reality, and use it as fuel to move forward. You will probably vacillate between sadness and anger for some time, so expect that to happen.
You’re going to be ok once this is all said and done. And you’re going to stronger and wiser as well./