Thats what I'm trying to do SteveLW, perhaps I didnt word what I said to him as well as I thought I did. I suppose that is always a possibility. I did make it clear I wasnt going to stay around if he did do these things. If I do find out hes talking to other women, I plan on taking further actions with our S.
Wayfarer I agree wholeheartedly with you. When my H gets angry with me or Tries to start a fight, its because he feels guilty for what he has done/is doing.
I have officially set up a meeting to talk to a Lawyer next week, at the very least to see what the process looks like and what I can expect. I have been reading alot of books and trying to be prepared in case my H does come back and truly chooses to work on our M so that I can be more prepared for what our new M may need etc. I'm always looking into places and figuring out all the things I'll need to do it we do end up getting a D. So I am trying to prepare for the worst but still hoping for the best. It has been a test alot lately for me but I am still here.
