wayfarer Please feel free to punch my lights out! Lol! I certainly wouldn't be disrespectful to anybody. It's so easy for typed words to be taken wrongly as there is no body language or tonality to go with them, only the readers interpretation of the words as they read them.
It's nice that you chose differently and actually have chosen somebody for who they are and what not what they have or what you thought they could give you. This I think is how a lot of people choose.
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You're afraid that you were grifted by stbxw.
Maybe I am afraid of some things, but I'm not afraid that I have been grifted. She has been doing this since before May 2019 (I checked the bank statements of the savings account again). I am no longer afraid of anything the stbxw does. I think the lawyer will sort it with my help. I have learned loads this week and I have been targeted by her (alone?) and that is not acceptable.
Sorry for being a victim of circumstance - but uncovering what I have uncovered and still continue to uncover, it's hard not to become the victim as by definition, I am, but I won't act like it any further. I feel so empowered that even this god awful shaking has finally stopped.
I am working out one body part a day in my little home gym, because:
1 - A workout of sorts helps with my condition 2 - I have been tasked by the physio to do certain exercises for my upper back 3 - It keeps me fit and active 4 - I like it!
I'm a skinny runt at the moment as I've lost the weight and if I don't train I'll loose a lot more muscle. I'm not vain and I don't think it all about my body. I like to read and learn - always have, that 's how I become different too, as you say.
It is my intention to work on myself spiritually and mentally also. I have been doing this for years until my wife walked out then I couldn't concentrate any more.
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You just need to take some more time to process this stuff. And stop worrying so much about tomorrow and the next day and the next day and the next day. Seriously focus on you. Focus on today. Focus on small things that can make today better. Focus on small things that can make you feel whole and healthy again. One step at at time. One day at a time.
I certainly do need more time to process things and I think that focusing on one day at a time is a good plan. I think now I know what's really been going on, things will start getting a little bit easier to deal with, because quite frankly, I am angry and annoyed.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
I certainly wouldn't be disrespectful to anybody. It's so easy for typed words to be taken wrongly as there is no body language or tonality to go with them, only the readers interpretation of the words as they read them.
