Tomorrow I have court. Right now it looks like the lawyers came up with an agreement. Drop the order of protection and go to court ordered therapy. With a new therapist that is progressive. Meaning over time increase my time with my daughter. The other therapist after 8 months did nothing.
Good luck today, Wolf, and let us know how it goes. (:
Given your D's reluctance to see you, accepting less than 50/50 custody, but buy-in from your XW to take your D to therapy sounds great. I hope your agreement has "teeth" if your XW fails to take your D, and that it allows you to change therapists if the first one isn't working for you or your D. When you have your first visit setup is a GREAT time to extend an olive branch to your ex soliciting her advice on making your first visit with D successful for D (not you). After your first visit is a good time to express gratitude. You have an opening. You can slowly turn around this co-parenting relationship, which will in turn improve your relationship with your kids.
