I tend to prefer meeting people in general surroundings,
That still works today. (:
Originally Posted by smilie
The problem I have is that if women are looking for men who work, then I've lost before I've even begun.
That's what is great about dating apps. On Bumble, "unemployed" appears right on your profile photo. You only chat with the women who see that and are still interested (swipe right). (:
Originally Posted by smilie
I remember finding it hard to get a date as I hadn't got a lot of confidence. smile
This you need to address. It's DEFINITELY worth taking a few months to address any self-compassion issues to accept who you are, and also work on areas you feel uncomfortable with--e.g., your living situation, your employment, etc. It sounds like you imagine women flock to men with big.. incomes. In the past month I've dated.. a dozen?.. women. Only one asked about my finances. I was very vague.
