Ouch! Yep, found some! Not strong enough though, but I suppose it builds up. I certainly wouldn't end a relationship because of it without first raising it as a serious issue. Thinking as I type, it's just what I do because that's what is right - to me, doesn't mean that's what everybody else is going to do and of course, she has always had her strategy for acting on that feeling - the trigger if you will that starts that process off.
Originally Posted by LH19
Smilies this is going to sound really bad but it very well could be your sickness. What could she have said to you? Get better or else. If I am reading your updates correctly she started her exit strategy as early as last June.
Course it doesn't sound bad, it's true and I've thought that as well. Remember she sent a text telling me that it wasn't that and it wasn't because I didn't work. The brain can't process negatives directly so she was telling me exactly why, the only bit of truth she did say probably, was that she "didn't know why".
Seems so lame to cause so much damage to somebody else in a calculated and cold-hearted fashion, organizing the drawing out of money to make them destitute, ruin their retirement and all without my knowledge and not know why? What a crock! And I just have to accept and live with that? It's a tough one!
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
