I know why she left. I was useless and had no income as I have a neurological condition and she decided that she wanted to be with the guy who has loads of money and flashy cars that she turned up in on the weekend to collect her clothes. In my book, she has prostituted herself
Originally Posted by CWarrior
You have no idea why she chose him. You seem to be mindreading and villainizing her.
Originally Posted by smilie
I didn't think that I was, it's just what I see. I suppose I'm wrong again then smile
You observed she's driving a new car, implied his car/money was why she chose him, then went as far as to say "she has prostituted herself." That leap requires some mindreading.
The women I dated who had underemployed or unemployed ex's did tend to look for someone self-sufficient. There's a difference between dating for someone who doesn't decrease her wealth, and dating for someone who increases her wealth. When you date real people, they often exceed your minimums in some areas. That may be the case with his flashy car, or maybe that is why she dated him! Neither of us knows.
She does own at least one villainous action--cheating on you by having an exit affair.
