I tortured myself for many months with the question of "how could she move on so quickly after 14 years together".
I know you're right and it doesn't matter. What's happening inside her head is what makes her move on, flipped the a switch that made husband -> enemy & lover -> partner. She's been moving on for a while, that much is obvious.
Originally Posted by OnlyBent
How I see it now is, she wanted out, her meeting someone new was an inevitability. Why does it matter the timeframe? ... It's just a number, therefore it doesn't matter. The time it takes them to move on is neither good or bad, it is only your perception that makes it so.
You are correct.
Originally Posted by CWarrior
You have no idea why she chose him. You seem to be mindreading and villainizing her.
I didn't think that I was, it's just what I see. I suppose I'm wrong again then
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
