This is where I find it difficult, as I was truly unaware that the relationship had broke down.
I bet! BD is a shock for most of us. In my case, there were many signs. In your case, it sounds like there were few recent signs. That has to be all the more frustrating.
Originally Posted by smilie
I know why she left. I was useless and had no income as I have a neurological condition and she decided that she wanted to be with the guy who has loads of money and flashy cars that she turned up in on the weekend to collect her clothes. In my book, she has prostituted herself
You have no idea why she chose him. You seem to be mindreading and villainizing her.