Originally Posted by smilie
I have just got a letter from my wife's lawyer.
This is negotiations. You have claims, she has claims. You can agree or disagree about any part of it.

At some point you both settle. If you can't settle, then arbitration. If that fails then a judge makes a ruling.

It is an emotional time for you and your spouse. The lawyers are in the middle making money. Lots of things to stir up some anger. Anger is raw energy.

Channel the anger into positive action. For example, action into researching the divorce laws of you area. Get educated.

Stay strong. Work to protect yourself. You can handle it.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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