Today he texted me and asked me if I'd call his doctor for him to get some results (he was busy at work and couldnt take the call" I texted him back "you dont want me as your wife, if you did still then I would be happy to, but since you don't I'm sorry but I cant" ....... He just replied he cant get ahold of them and didnt ackniwledge what I said at all. So I didn't reply back.
And yes I know what I said was lengthier then I probably should have replied, I'm still learning.
Learning is the Key!
Using the fewest, simplest words to get the point across has the greatest effect.
Never respond immediately. (You are a busy woman)
Right off the top of my head:
"No" "Sorry, best if you call them" "I believe you should call them" "I can't right now, you should call them"
Remember, No explaining. Make a decision based on logic then execute.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
