Once again smilie don't take any of this personally no matter how personal it feels. None of what she is doing is she doing to cut you at the knees personally, she's doing what she thinks is best for her. You are just an obstacle in her way. This version of reality will come crashing down on her in due time. And she will try to make this seem more and more personal as she loses more and more of what she wants. She's going to blame you. She's going to say and do much worse things. Trust me. But none of it's about you. It's about that elusive happiness she seeks.
Once again spot on, it is getting worse. You should be a fortune teller - seriously - can I be your first client please?
Will her version of reality come crashing down? Really? You've got everything else right so far, but I can't see that she will ever suffer for this and that she will just get everything she wants having shat on me completely. Some would say that she will have no regrets, I think at this stage I would agree. I would never treat anybody the way she is now treating me - it would be against my character, totally. If she had a conscience, surely she wouldn't do what she has done over the past few years, had affairs, coordinated the emptying of accounts and now piscing on me!
I feel so betrayed it's unbelievable!
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.