Even when she tries to frame you as the problem in the MR you need to remember that her brain and the people in her life need to make her illogical and emotionally driven actions seem logical.
You are right - she is doing exactly this now through her lawyer, indicating I am 'unwilling' to work, when she intimately knows I cannot, not in the traditional sense, otherwise, why would we not have solved that issue over the past 7 years?
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.