Advice Help Only Please

[Ready2Change]

Thornton is a wise DBer. Burn his advise into your brain.

I told him that he cant keep having it both ways, he says he wants a divorce then gets ahold of me and talking to me like I'm his wife, and that he sits near me and kisses me sometimes like I'm his wife. I told him that I'm here and if he wants to work on our marriage then I am more then happy to do that but if hes going to keep saying he wants a divorce and telling others that and looking for OW then he just cant have it both ways.

Now that you have told him this, NEVER REPEAT IT TO HIM AGAIN.


You have verbally set your boundary. It will now be a time for action that enforce that boundary. Words are words, actions gets results.

DO NOT GIVE HIM ANYMORE POWER. You have the power.

Some Mantras:
"This is not working for me"
"I do not share my husband with other women"
"I do not want to be with someone who does not want to be with me"


You can do this. You can handle it. You have a whole group of people here supporting you.

HUGS