And I won't be around to ever know this. It's likely that in a few weeks I will be gone from this area for good. I cannot stay around here with all the memories and the risk of bumping into her. So the only person who will ever know the answer to that question is her and that for me, is a crying shame.
I actually really like this and think this really plays to your favor to have this attitude. The more you can foster they idea that you aren't sticking around waiting for her to finally wake-up, the more likely she will wake up before it is too late.
No I'm not, not after I'm finding out just what she is capable of. She is trying to tread me into the ground like a POS of the bottom of her shoe, after taking the savings and trying to take my pensions - she is still trying.
Originally Posted by SteveLW
In most situations, the WS does eventually wake up and question what they are doing. By then often times the LBS has moved forward with their life and does not look back! The beauty of DBing is that by DBing you are going to be fine, NO MATTER WHAT! Sometimes early on it is hard to see that, but one day you will look back and realize that whatever the outcome, the situation was one of the best things that ever happened.
Well, she can then wake up and look at her reflection in the mirror and answer to that. I'm done with her and her games, which she is only just getting started playing, it would seem.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
