I aporeciate how well Thorton laid out what I need to be doing. Saying detaching and whatnot is one thing. Hearing real examples of ways to do it help me alot more. I am going to take the advice and try my best not to backside. This seems easier if we didn't work the same hours and live in the same house but I'm going to find ways to make even being at home at the same time more separate. Thank you all for the great advice. I'm in the beginning stages of this so I know I ask alot of questions and I appreciate how kind and helpful everyone has been towards me during this.
