Also acts of service are my Hs love language and with our careers ive akways dome mist if the housework so how should I handle that. Do I still do it mostly or do I start only doing me and my sons laundry and divide up our dishes. Etc. I'm sure this is one of those counter intuitve things. This is something that makes my H feel loved so I want to do these things for him. But I'm guessing its probably something where I need to stop doing any kind of specific housework for him. I'm just worried it'll make him feel I'm being lazy and have him think divorcing me is the right thing.
