Thank you guys for the advice. I needed to hear it. My H sat down on the couch with me while I was watching tv and it hit me. I ended up walking upstairs and he followed me after a minute and asked me if I was coming back down. I told him that he cant keep having it both ways, he says he wants a divorce then gets ahold of me and talking to me like I'm his wife, and that he sits near me and kisses me sometimes like I'm his wife. I told him that I'm here and if he wants to work on our marriage then I am more then happy to do that but if hes going to keep saying he wants a divorce and telling others that and looking for OW then he just cant have it both ways. All he said was that he understands and he will leave me to it. I'm honestly in tears right now, its been a month since this all started and ive backed off but its the first time I really said anything like that to him. And I went into it knowing he wasnt going to say anything like "lets work on our marraige" or anything like that but it still hurt like hell when he just said he understood and walked away. It was so hard and I know that now it just gets harder as I have to stop being near him. But I want to save my marriage so I'm going to do my best to focus on GAL and not on my marriage
