Okay I am definitely focusing on GALing and focusing more on me and my son, some of the information was just confusing. Trying to find the right balance of being positive when hes around but not giving him too much of my attention. Its been a big learning process for me. Yes of course flirting and what not would be something I want as I am only human, but I am not trying to find an excuse to do it, I swear, I'm simply trying to find the balance between doing a 180 and LRT and at the same time giving him what the OWs give him to a degree. It really is a delicate thing to master lol

And I am trying to stop initiating contact with him as much as possible, its difficult as we do live in the same house still and have our son as well.