CWs it's interesting that you would make this statement when you divorced your W when she was depressed. That doesn't sound like unconditional love to me. Maybe I'm wrong?
LH, that's TWO deep questions today! I promise to get back to them after paddleboarding this morning. (:
I'll take a crack.
Depression was her cross to bear. CW's decision was how long he was willing to wait for her to do what she needed to do to work on her problem. I am sure CW, you didn't pull the plug on your marriage the day after her depression diagnosis, am I right? It was probably a long, sordid journey where her depression caused her to behave in ways that were counter-productive, destructive, and/or unacceptable. Depression is like any things else, it isn't the disease that is the problem, it is the patient's reaction to the disease. Like the diabetic that just ignores the doctor's advice, refuses to take the medication, and continues to eat a diet problematic for their condition.
Well this answer seems to conflict with the in sickness and health and death to you part that I am always reminded about on here. Also doesn't make a very good case for our friend Smilies here either.
Depends on what the depression-caused behavior is. Sickness and health goes out the window if the sickness results in her sleeping with other people. -shrug-
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
