Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by smilie
I couldn't support her the way she expected and she just looked at someone else who had a more affluent lifestyle and was self-sufficient (like I used to be when I met her) and she said to herself "I want that", and so she did. Magically she is transported to a nice house and driving new big cars - a true rags to riches fairy-tale.

So what kind of person is that Smilies?

The same type of person who is prepared to sleep her way to the top, which effectively is what she is doing.

Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by smilie
The answer is just as muddled and gives me no clear choice - I must, but I really don't want to. And that one statement takes away one path and takes away choice. I suppose I must keep to my words that I told her just before she left, "I'll give you what you want". She told me what she wanted, so I must keep up my end of the bargain I suppose, after all, I am and always have been, a man of my word.

NO! You do what's best for you!

I have to start thinking that way now. It's not thinking that way got me into trouble!

Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by smilie
This one thing I am sure, will break me ... completely.

Only if you let it.

True.

Cheers


M(55), W(45)
BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21)
Divorce Filed (16 July '21)
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When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.