No need to get upset. Either take the advice in stride or ignore it.
As far as the blow back you received it’s because you said your STBXW was moving and you’d be fine moving with her. That’s a massive red flag with your question.
Are your feelings of grieving the end of your marriage normal. Absolutely. Are your feelings of being ok to move hours away with her normal. No.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
