I’m happy that my ex’s second wife isn’t one of his affair partners. BUT you might take a certain satisfaction in knowing that being married to an affair partner has to mean a lifetime of looking over your shoulder. Because after all, if they’ll cheat WITH you, what’s to keep them from cheating ON you?
And she isn’t getting the guy YOU married. She’s getting an older version with a major character defect and a big hole of unhappiness inside that they’re trying to fill. No prize.