Picking Up the Pieces After WAW Goes Again

[smilie]

You should have faith in yourself, look how well you have done so far. You are getting better through this.

I don't see myself as doing well at all.

And to me, a guy who is smart/successful is going to realize that he was the OM to a woman and that she is not exactly a great partner. You aren't sure what this guy is looking for anyways it may be just a fling to him but who cares... you shouldn't concern yourself with it either. She's not your lady anymore, not your problem.

No, not my problem. I suppose I can't see how he'd figure it out. I didn't and I thought I was smart. Obviously not.

Lots of people jump from R to R and never heal and just carry their baggage for life. That is the best part about this for you. You get to do things the right way. You get to grow instead of learning to run from your fears.

R jumping is exactly what she has done since she left home. I need to study Red Flags. I've actually been thinking about my future life today also. I've got to do what I dreamed of doing. That'll be my way back from this and this time I don't have to wait until she gets onboard with the idea, like I have done all these years, I can just do it.