Steve_ Moving on

[Steve_]

LH I don’t think you understand. You have become so jaded you are not listening to what I’m saying you are interpreting it in a personal way.

I do not want my XW back. She is not a good person. She continues to display that constantly. The disrespect she throws around at anyone who stands in her way is insane. All I was asking was if that others have had similar feelings and about how long they dealt with it.

I am not playing a damn game. This is not about getting my XW back. I am not a moron she is never ever ever going to respect me as a man especially if I went back to her after the horrors she did to me. I am better off alone with my kids than with her. This is not about that. It was about asking something else.

My GF knows exactly what’s going on. She is dealing with her own reality, me having kids, an ex that is just a sh*tty person, and her own things. This has nothing to do with her this is my process to walk through. I am done posting here. I suppose the point of this board is to help save marriages but regurgitating Corey Wayne’s dating advice and personal jaded feelings is getting old. I read his book I watch his videos. And the man is in his older age playing “the game” with no wife, no kids, no family and no legacy except notches in a bed post. I don’t want that for me. And I’m not trying to save this marriage. I was asking about life after it’s over and moving on. I think it’s time to look for support elsewhere. Had I DB properly at the beginning this process would have happened faster and yes I probably could have saved this M. But I’m glad I did not. It’s not worth it. And if I took any advice from this board or walk away with anything it’s that I am glad this divorce did not get busted. But coming here for advice post divorce and getting the opposite is useless.

Thanks for your efforts I hope you can help someone with a M worth saving. Now I see why so few people save M’s in divorce. That explains the inactivity on those boards.

-cheers