ovrrnbw Your comments make so much sense to me and I feel stoked that you have faith that I'll be OK. I hope that I am and that I can pick myself up and start to follow my dreams alone. Like I said to my wife on the weekend that she left they are my dreams and always have been. I need to follow them now and see where they take me. God know how I start that one.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
And honestly, if this OM is so smart and successful he will eventually dump her anyways.
Where is the psychology to this though? I am interested as to why her might/would dump her. Is he a player that just enjoys the chase and now that he has her he no longer feels that thrill? Will he eventually realise that she is only with him because she wanted a step up in her life and that he has resources that she wants to have too?
I would love to understand that.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
