i see that you've already popped over here and your thread is getting good traction. I'm sorry you're here, but the folks on this board are good people and their advice is sound. good luck as you travel your journey.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver