You've got this! If things get scary, remember you can call the police! I had to do that once when an ex misbehaved picking up her things--stole $250-$350. This was the same person who for years before (and after) gave tons to charity. I couldn't believe she'd do that! She later made up for it by secretly covering my D's bus fare for 3.5 years, and 5.5 years later she's a good friend again.