This is now a business transaction. Two businesses mingled all of their assists. Now they need to split them up.
And that is a shame, as part of my pension has been paid out fairly quickly. I'm not sure if she will have claim to that though as yet, if she does then it may well be worth cutting losses. We'll see, I could have done without that but that was the only option I had to get money to then rent a suitable house with. I shall play it by ear, as they say!
But yes, business....
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.