, as for tonight I honestly am not sure what hes going to say, I feel it could go either way. My main concern is if he says he wants to talk to a lawyer together
Be prepared for the worst. Then everything is easy to deal with. Then hope for the best. Go with the attitude that this is going to be great evening.
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do I just agree to it or is that a time when I need to express my feelings on it some?
deflect and defer.
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Are you saying you believe I should stay sleeping in bed with my H, even knowing he is at the very least talking to other women?
YES.
If you find out he is involved with another woman, then you can set a different boundary.
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