Thank you for your advice and feedback. I cant tell you how comforting it is to me right now to get support and advice. As for the R talk my H has initaited it. He wants to have a talk and asked me to go to our anniversary resteraunt (as I call it) tonight. Now I'm all for just listening and validating, as for tonight I honestly am not sure what hes going to say, I feel it could go either way. My main concern is if he says he wants to talk to a lawyer together, do I just agree to it or is that a time when I need to express my feelings on it some?
Also I'm a little confused with your second reply. Are you saying you believe I should stay sleeping in bed with my H, even knowing he is at the very least talking to other women? (I dont believe he is sleeping with anyone right now and I am firm in that) he has expressed extreme guilt and being sorry over having physically cheated even if we were separated at the time.
