Originally Posted by Artemis1
I will no longer be sleeping in bed with him


I am a firm believer that the LBS should stay in the master bedroom and sleep in the master bed. This is part of standing for your marriage.

Sex is off the table right now, that is your boundary to protect yourself, but non-controlling behavior from you is also important.

Example:

"H,I would prefer if you slept in the master bed also, but I understand if you choose to sleep somewhere else"

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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