I'm sorry you're going through this. Ditto the above. There was also the possible suggestion to pack up her things nicely ahead of time, to minimize the time she spends visiting to pickup her things.
Thank you. I have nothing to pack her things in. She has so many clothes. All I can do is gather things up and put them in one place. I have no bags, boxes or anything and I wouldn't pack them nicely in the state I'm in - I don't even want to look at her stuff anymore.
I've got a hypnotherapy session tomorrow morning for my anxiety for when she comes. Then the lady suggested a block of sessions over 4 weeks to help me cope with everything better. I think I may take her up on that.
I'm scared man. I didn't think she was capable of this .. at all ... and for what reason? I have never done anything to warrant this, ever.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.