Although I respect your oppinion about being friends thing not working, or isn't right. I respectfully disagree, Even Michele talks of a woman who did just that, was a safe place and a friend to her husband who she was going through the D process with and having an affair that they ever talked about the OW as friends would and they ended up back together as she has reminded him of the friendship they had etc. I also have had a family member who went through just about the same thing as the story i keep mentioning and her husband and her have been together happily ever since for 45 years, it was within the first 5 years of marriage it happened to her.
I think you are comparing apples and oranges, Artemis.
Its one thing for a partner to have an affair. It's another thing to be a serial cheater, which usually indicates a mental health disorder (Narcissism).
I've been here since 2013 and was able to get my ex back 3 times before she split again, and this is what I know to be true.
1. Almost everyone here does not take the advice given to them when they first arrive. 2. Almost everyone here regrets not taking the advice given to them when they first arrived.
