I'm not sure if I should make clear that he is not to ever bring anyone home even if I'm not home (I dont believe he would ever do that in a million years to be honest) but i'm just not sure if its something i should bring up anyways.
Hi Artemis,
That doesn't sound like a boundary. That sounds like an attempt to control him. There's a thread here on how to set boundaries. "If X happens, I'll do Y." Since they control you, they rarely need communicating.
